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Your Fairytale Wedding Without the Fairy Tale

Hello, Rationalists, Humanists, Agnostics, Atheists, Pastafarians and other Freethinkers! I'm Sasha, your friendly neighborhood atheist, and I've been marrying couples since 2002.

My clients love my custom ceremony creation process, which offers both guidance and imaginative freedom as we co-create your one-of-a-kind ceremony script. I work exclusively with couples who want a secular ceremony, including interfaith couples compromising on a religion-free wedding, folks who describe themselves as "spiritual, but not really religious," or Atheists with a capital "A." Your ceremony will reflect your unique beliefs, personalities, and quirks, and your guests will feel included in something special.

Agnostic Weddings serves all of California. Please reach out to request your free consultation so that we can talk about your vision – I am committed to helping your wedding dreams come true!

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How I cater to Offbeat Brides

I'm a huge nerd, and I love working with couples who want to do something different that really feels like them in their wedding ceremony. I've married folks in best friends double weddings, on a gondola, in a hot air balloon, in costume, and helped couples delight and surprise their guests with all manner of silliness and whimsy…..without descending into cheeseball comedy-hour shenanigans (unless that is your jam, in which case GAME ON.) It's your wedding day, so my job is to help YOU shine in all your offbeat glory….and luckily, that is my specialty.

And of course Agnostic Weddings is inclusive, supportive, and affirming of the LGBTQIA+ community in all of our spectacular diversity!

"We loved working with Sasha from the first meeting to when we handed over our wedding license! There's something about Sasha that makes you feel very comfortable and at ease in a seemingly hectic wedding planning process. Me and my (now) husband didn't really know what we wanted or expected out of a wedding officiant, only that we needed one, and wanted a non-denominational ceremony." -Elaine (More kind words from couples on Yelp!)

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